7 Signs Your Child May Have a Reading Issue (That Gets Missed)
Your child seems smart.
They talk well, tell great stories, and seem curious.
But when it comes to reading? Something feels off. đ
The school says, âTheyâll catch up.â
You hear, âThey just need more practice.â
But in your gut, you know itâs more than that.
Here are 7 often-overlooked signs that your child may be struggling with reading â and what to do next.
đŠ 1. They Guess Instead of Sounding Out
They see the word âcatâ and say âcar.â
They read âhomeâ as âhouse.â
Guessing is often mistaken for problem-solving, but itâs a big red flag that decoding isnât automatic.
đ What it means: Theyâre relying on context or memoryânot phonics.
đŠ 2. They Read a Word on Page 1, But Not on Page 3
They decode âsaidâ perfectly⌠then stumble over it two pages later.
đ What it means: The word isnât orthographically mapped in memory. Itâs not âsticking.â
đŠ 3. They Struggle to Remember Letter Sounds
They can sing the alphabet and name lettersâbut when asked what sound âmâ makes, they hesitate.
đ What it means: Letter-sound associations arenât solid. This impacts decoding and spelling.
đŠ 4. Spelling Is Wildly Inaccurate
They write:
âfrndâ for friend
âsedâ for said
âcotâ for caught
đ What it means: Theyâre hearing sounds but donât know how to represent themâor theyâre guessing entirely.
đŠ 5. They Read Fluently But Donât Understand
They fly through a passage, but when you ask, âWhat happened?â they shrug.
đ What it means: Theyâre decoding well but lack language comprehensionâor theyâre reading words without truly processing them.
đŠ 6. They Avoid Reading or Get Anxious
They fake being sick during reading time.
They melt down over simple assignments.
They âcanât findâ their book⌠again.
đ What it means: They may associate reading with failure or embarrassment. Itâs become an emotional trigger.
đŠ 7. You Feel Like Theyâre Working Harder Than Other Kids
Theyâre not lazy.
Theyâre exhausted.
Every word feels like a mountain to climbâevery day.
đ What it means: Their brain may be compensating for missing pathways that others develop more easily.
â What NOT to Do
Donât assume theyâll âgrow out of itâ
Donât double down on sight word flashcards
Donât blame yourselfâor your child
Reading difficulties are common, and theyâre highly treatableâif caught early.
â What TO Do Instead
âď¸ 1. Get a phonological awareness screener
This checks their ability to hear, isolate, and manipulate sounds.
âď¸ 2. Use decodable texts that match their phonics knowledge
No more guessing. Let them read what theyâre equipped to decode.
âď¸ 3. Build in daily sound mapping and spelling
Teach them how words workânot just how they look.
âď¸ 4. Focus on mastery, not speed
The goal is confidence and clarityânot rushing through a page.
đ How BrainySheets Supports Struggling Readers
BrainySheets was built for exactly this moment.
When a parent realizes somethingâs wrongâ
but isnât sure what to doâ
we offer:
Clear stories for every phonics level
Simple, research-aligned teaching guides
Zero guesswork
Structured success
You donât need a diagnosis to start helping.
You just need the right tools.
Final Thoughts
Struggling readers donât just âcatch up.â
They thrive when given the right kind of support.
Trust your gut.
Take action early.
And rememberâreading issues arenât a reflection of effort or intelligence. Theyâre a signal.
Letâs answer it with confidence and care. đđđ§